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<rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description>I’m Julia. This is my life.
My life is characterized by some mix of snark &amp; optimism;my likes range from the delicate to the ironic. I want to be near the ocean. I believe the world is a beautiful place.

This blog is a celebration of nature, of change, of courage, of kindness, of bliss, of life, of the universe.

twenty-two/grad studentTalk to me. Ask me something. Tell me a secret. Tell me your hopes &amp; dreams. What I look like
Poetry I’ve writtenPintrestBig list of great books by female writers</description><title>I want to take you far frm the cynics in this town</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @lajoiedevivre)</generator><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>It really annoys me that Eric Northman&amp;#8217;s name is not spelled Erik. </title><description>&lt;p&gt;It really annoys me that Eric Northman&amp;#8217;s name is not spelled Erik. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53234046602</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53234046602</guid><pubDate>Tue, 18 Jun 2013 00:49:01 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/03d310c3e8fa54790951c2b2895a0f26/tumblr_mnfhf9hPP01rgrw53o1_400.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53188319680</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53188319680</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 12:12:47 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/eabd869226b6e2fc21b49934f82e55fe/tumblr_moc7en2bd41r6zegbo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53157826895</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53157826895</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 02:22:15 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>"This is what sexism does best: it makes you feel crazy for desiring parity and hopeless about ever..."</title><description>“This is what sexism does best: it makes you feel crazy for desiring parity and hopeless about ever achieving it.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thenation.com/article/173743/my-so-called-post-feminist-life-arts-and-letters?rel=tumblr"&gt;Deborah Copaken Kogan, “My So-Called ‘Post-Feminist’ Life in Arts and Letters”&lt;/a&gt; (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thenationmagazine.tumblr.com/"&gt;thenationmagazine&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I want to direct every man (person!) who thinks feminism isn’t necessary to this article.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53150525821</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53150525821</guid><pubDate>Mon, 17 Jun 2013 00:36:08 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>sometimes I sit in my room, topless, eating ice pops, and it&amp;#8217;s for practicality (I am that 1...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;sometimes I sit in my room, topless, eating ice pops, and it&amp;#8217;s for practicality (I am that 1 year old who cannot eat without ruining an outfit) and not to turn anyone on.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53144971520</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53144971520</guid><pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 23:16:00 +0100</pubDate><category>real lives of women right here</category><category>not everything is about seduction</category><category>i feel like this is a very hannah horvath moment</category></item><item><title>One of my favorite things about my fav book The Dud Avocado, is that, for most of the book the main...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;One of my favorite things about my fav book The Dud Avocado, is that, for most of the book the main (female) character has no real love interests. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;And, just, especially as a woman who has lived most of her life without substantial romantic relationships with men, I really appreciate stories about women that don&amp;#8217;t revolve around the love story.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;We need to tell more stories like this.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53144752775</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53144752775</guid><pubDate>Sun, 16 Jun 2013 23:13:01 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Lately I’ve been really into pintrest. But I feel like I...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/817bad393da37281ec72691f9182e961/tumblr_mog1bhCvnS1qzxpl2o1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Lately I’ve been really into pintrest. But I feel like I haven’t been posting as much cool stuff on here, as a result. So here are some of my favorite recent pins.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;sources:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;ol&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://fyeahtattoos.com/post/526823902/wood-violets-and-bumble-bees-by-the-amazing"&gt;&lt;a href="http://fyeahtattoos.com/post/526823902/wood-violets-and-bumble-bees-by-the-amazing"&gt;http://fyeahtattoos.com/post/526823902/wood-violets-and-bumble-bees-by-the-amazing&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://prepfection.com/post/38959597183/emerson-fry-fall-2012"&gt;&lt;a href="http://prepfection.com/post/38959597183/emerson-fry-fall-2012"&gt;http://prepfection.com/post/38959597183/emerson-fry-fall-2012&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://brittanickel.tumblr.com/post/36050047846/sunsetdreamer2-the-pool-of-dreams"&gt;&lt;a href="http://brittanickel.tumblr.com/post/36050047846/sunsetdreamer2-the-pool-of-dreams"&gt;http://brittanickel.tumblr.com/post/36050047846/sunsetdreamer2-the-pool-of-dreams&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://theprepsterblog.blogspot.ca/2008/04/j-crew-italian-paisley-pant.html"&gt;&lt;a href="http://theprepsterblog.blogspot.ca/2008/04/j-crew-italian-paisley-pant.html"&gt;http://theprepsterblog.blogspot.ca/2008/04/j-crew-italian-paisley-pant.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://lolobu.com/look/14052"&gt;&lt;a href="http://lolobu.com/look/14052"&gt;http://lolobu.com/look/14052&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.refinery29.com/party-hairstyles/slideshow?page=60#slide-60"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.refinery29.com/party-hairstyles/slideshow?page=60#slide-60"&gt;http://www.refinery29.com/party-hairstyles/slideshow?page=60#slide-60&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53033231491</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53033231491</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 17:47:41 +0100</pubDate><category>pintrest</category></item><item><title>There are these people, who do a million artsy things well. Sometimes you hear about famous people...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;There are these people, who do a million artsy things well. Sometimes you hear about famous people like this: Sufjan Stevens, Matthew Gray Gubler. People who act or make music but also write poetry and make art and knit and play 20 instruments. &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I want to be one of those people. I want to actually do all the things I think about doing. &lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53030248088</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/53030248088</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 16:59:00 +0100</pubDate><category>post-grad school plans</category><category>plus read and learn languages</category><category>arts &amp; crafts</category></item><item><title>"We do a much greater disservice to girls, because we raise them to cater to the fragile egos of men...."</title><description>“&lt;p&gt;We do a much greater disservice to girls, because we raise them to cater to the fragile egos of men. We teach girls to shrink themselves, to make themselves smaller. We say to girls: ‘You can have ambition, but not too much. You should aim to be successful, but not too successful, otherwise you will threaten the man. If you are the breadwinner in your relationship with a man, you have to pretend that you’re  not, especially in public otherwise you will ‘emasculate’ him.’&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;But what if we questioned the premise itself— why should a woman’s success be a threat to a man? What if we decide to simply dispose of that word? And I don’t think there’s an English word I despise more than ‘emasculation.’&lt;/p&gt;”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;&lt;p&gt;Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, TedxEuston (&lt;a href="http://blackinasia.tumblr.com/post/52796506353/we-should-all-be-feminists-tedxtalk-by" title="x -  link to http://blackinasia.tumblr.com/post/52796506353/we-should-all-be-feminists-tedxtalk-by"&gt;x&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;All of the truth. She’s incredible!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://blackinasia.tumblr.com/"&gt;blackinasia&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;ugh i love her so much&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://vomohiper.tumblr.com/"&gt;vomohiper&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52983601013</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52983601013</guid><pubDate>Sat, 15 Jun 2013 01:05:26 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>was your hair a lot longer in the back than in the front? it looks like you lost barely an inch from your other pics lol</title><description>&lt;p&gt;It was longer in the back, but it also had been significantly longer &amp; had broken off over time, all of which is a major part of why I cut it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Also, it feels a lot shorter to me because I never cut my hair &amp; I have hair attachement issues. Don’t you know every centimeter of hair = 1,000 mermaid tears?&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52958191115</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52958191115</guid><pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 18:37:44 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>(Not saying this isn&amp;#8217;t often true for &amp;#8220;self-made&amp;#8221; white, straight, cis women too,...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;(Not saying this isn&amp;#8217;t often true for &amp;#8220;self-made&amp;#8221; white, straight, cis women too, but) &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I can&amp;#8217;t deal with heterosexual, cis, &amp;#8220;self-made&amp;#8221; white men who use their class movement as evidence that everyone else who is poor is lazy, who are totally blind to allll the privilege they have just because they had a working class upbringing.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52937371272</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52937371272</guid><pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 10:44:08 +0100</pubDate><category>the american dream is a lot more of a reality if you only have class disadvantage</category><category>the republican party</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/84005bb961eb7d7091a9bb0e2e4fb6f6/tumblr_mnldwsLRQB1r7ca6eo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52907682976</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52907682976</guid><pubDate>Fri, 14 Jun 2013 01:26:06 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>thelittlefrenchbullblog:

(via Amelia &amp; Stuart)
</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/dedee79da9da425a8240f20e7a9e0257/tumblr_mladjo0jEM1rsqyo5o1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://thelittlefrenchbullblog.tumblr.com/post/48028461315/via-amelia-stuart"&gt;thelittlefrenchbullblog&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;(via &lt;a href="http://ameliaandstuart.tumblr.com/"&gt;Amelia &amp; Stuart&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52861357013</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52861357013</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jun 2013 12:20:48 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>lovewroteandwrit:

things to fight, always.
1. resentment.
2. disrespect (of others, and of...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://lovewroteandwrit.tumblr.com/post/41815464852"&gt;lovewroteandwrit&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;things to fight, always.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;span&gt;1. resentment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;2. disrespect (of others, and of yourself.)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;3. apathy.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;4. disorganisation.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;5. self-doubt.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;6. jealousy.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52835557890</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52835557890</guid><pubDate>Thu, 13 Jun 2013 03:05:40 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>do you still have twitter?</title><description>&lt;p&gt;yes! my username is JuliaLW.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52784478285</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52784478285</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Jun 2013 13:05:42 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>What I really love about Beyonce is that some of her songs are like &amp;#8220;stupid boy, you...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;What I really love about Beyonce is that some of her songs are like &amp;#8220;stupid boy, you didn&amp;#8217;t appreciate me, buh bye, don&amp;#8217;t need ya&amp;#8221; but others are about how in love she is with someone.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The ability to be a badass bitch when necessary but also not shy away from love/feelings/vulnerability is really fucking admirable.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52744905550</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52744905550</guid><pubDate>Wed, 12 Jun 2013 00:09:42 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>
In this mysteriously leaked DVD commentary for Season 4 of...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a551f0ea6181a444562fd52066fe6262/tumblr_mo1jbcrlpA1qcqa3io3_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/02b33a722f1d370c380ad7f557b312fd/tumblr_mo1jbcrlpA1qcqa3io2_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e35c54a7742a5022772e4e02124dad3c/tumblr_mo1jbcrlpA1qcqa3io1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/892c4ceea94578f922b18731a14f98f5/tumblr_mo1jbcrlpA1qcqa3io4_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/7e8e5c8da3673f2d291592a4a8880f2c/tumblr_mo1jbcrlpA1qcqa3io5_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/133146d2d5fa319edd19647998b4a071/tumblr_mo1jbcrlpA1qcqa3io6_r1_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/1edf9e7a4d1e662cf8fc7cc92c559c17/tumblr_mo1jbcrlpA1qcqa3io7_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/2dfaa15c72d25fd2335c8d92b962e679/tumblr_mo1jbcrlpA1qcqa3io8_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/fca3de66d133dc6a5e7debe296fd88ae/tumblr_mo1jbcrlpA1qcqa3io9_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e1ccd8b7666e65090881a6211b552a30/tumblr_mo1jbcrlpA1qcqa3io10_250.gif"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; &lt;br/&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;small&gt;In this mysteriously leaked DVD commentary for Season 4 of “Game Of Thrones,” author George R.R. Martin drops some &lt;strong&gt;MASSIVE&lt;/strong&gt; plot bombshells. You’ve been warned. [&lt;a href="http://teamcoco.com/video/george-rr-martin-game-of-thrones-spoilers"&gt;x&lt;/a&gt;]&lt;/small&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52706672015</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52706672015</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Jun 2013 14:43:49 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Now that my hair’s shorter I feel like I need to either...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/d90141f38b724d0696f43eda90b54b7e/tumblr_mo8e1nCL051qzxpl2o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;Now that my hair’s shorter I feel like I need to either start wearing more headbands/makeup or just decide to bask in the androgyny if I’m going to continue dressing like a 12-year-old school boy.&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52706585375</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52706585375</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Jun 2013 14:41:00 +0100</pubDate><category>androgyny</category><category>short hair don't care</category><category>collared shirts</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/21979327559e3af6df7be3bf75d75de6/tumblr_mm32i43jbv1rvj00jo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52699053862</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52699053862</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Jun 2013 11:07:14 +0100</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/03323fc46a74e1c6de7ef710e478ebd9/tumblr_mjt95fHZZ21rzhe1co1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52669382437</link><guid>http://lajoiedevivre.tumblr.com/post/52669382437</guid><pubDate>Tue, 11 Jun 2013 01:50:09 +0100</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
